SJNA Mourns the Passing of Lilah Stangeland

It is with a heavy heart that we inform you of the passing of Lilah Stangeland. A faithful leader of St John’s Northwestern, Lilah’s journey with her beloved Academy commenced as a teenager when she began her courtship with Roger Stangeland S’47. A native of Wauconda, IL, Lilah often defined herself as “just a farm girl” who spent many weekends visiting Delafield, WI. They married just a few years later in 1950.

The Stangelands believed in the education which Roger received and they remained steadfast in their support and leadership for the Academy.  “The education and leadership training I received at the Academy enabled my success in life,” Roger would proudly state. He wanted other students to gain as much as he did from the Academy, through substantial donations providing opportunities for entire generations of youth. Lilah’s involvement with the Academy was recognized by the OBAA in 1999, when they bestowed the recognition of Honorary Old Boy. When Roger passed away in 2004, Lilah remained committed to Roger’s passion in St. John’s Northwestern by joining the Board of Trustees, which she continued to faithfully serve, boasting one of the longest tenures of any Trustee. In 2021, St. John’s Northwestern honored Lilah and the Stangeland Family by dedicating the parade field in the family’s name. 

Lilah was full of zeal and her lively spirit was palpable. She was dearly loved by the community she served. Mrs. Stangeland was present at nearly every main celebration on campus though her primary residence was in California. And when she visited Delafield, she was greeted with great enthusiasm from alumni, students, faculty, and staff. Her quick wit and keen memory warmed the hearts of all those with whom she interacted. Yet, it was her sense of responsibility for the school along with a profound dedication to Roger’s passion that inspired all who knew her.

Mrs. Stangeland’s leadership and loyalty to St. John’s Northwestern’s mission will carry light and opportunity for generations to come. Lilah’s final resting place will be next to Roger in the Columbarium. Information will be forthcoming soon.